you can change everything in your life, it is possible! I am living proof! Let me give you a picture of how.
The last 5 years of my marriage were negative in a way I didn't even realize until recently. We lost 2 homes, had 2 vehicles repossessed, owed the IRS over $90,000 with interest and penalties, had the electricity in our homes turned off more than 7 times, (5 of those 7, in the last 2 years of that 5 year span) had the cell phones turned off almost bi-monthly, & qualified for food stamps, the last 18 months of that 5 years. Add in to that an abusive husband & a child that moves out the day he turns 18 (while still in high school) and you can understand why I was so negative.
I needed a change but didn't think it was possible. I was stuck, or so I thought. You see what happen as a catalyst to the change, was all I needed. To get out of that marriage I needed either enough money to get a place, or a place to stay. Well the first option seemed grimm. The second was there, but I didn't realize it. I had a place to stay all I needed to do was believe it. So I went out on a limb & believed and this transformation began. Yes there is more, but that explanation is not needed. The key here is: I had to believe and see it in my mind. Actually create the actual scene in my mind to view.
I believed and I was out of the abusive situation, it wasn't over, but now I could begin to believe in more positive things. With each positive thought, I had to play a long tennis volley with my subconscious thoughts. How can you ever get a place of your own without money, and that huge IRS cloud? First things first, I had an income, something a lot of people didn't, a job. But I was on the edge of losing that because of my weight. So add one more thing to worry about, so the tennis volley continues. Positive thought, negative thought, positive thought, negative thought, Positive thought wins. Then that volley would slow down to maybe only 3 times a day. But it slowed down, and as it did I could see things improving.
So has that volley began? Keep it going with the positive, every time return the negative ball with a positive thought till the positive thought wins.
The last 5 years of my marriage were negative in a way I didn't even realize until recently. We lost 2 homes, had 2 vehicles repossessed, owed the IRS over $90,000 with interest and penalties, had the electricity in our homes turned off more than 7 times, (5 of those 7, in the last 2 years of that 5 year span) had the cell phones turned off almost bi-monthly, & qualified for food stamps, the last 18 months of that 5 years. Add in to that an abusive husband & a child that moves out the day he turns 18 (while still in high school) and you can understand why I was so negative.
I needed a change but didn't think it was possible. I was stuck, or so I thought. You see what happen as a catalyst to the change, was all I needed. To get out of that marriage I needed either enough money to get a place, or a place to stay. Well the first option seemed grimm. The second was there, but I didn't realize it. I had a place to stay all I needed to do was believe it. So I went out on a limb & believed and this transformation began. Yes there is more, but that explanation is not needed. The key here is: I had to believe and see it in my mind. Actually create the actual scene in my mind to view.
I believed and I was out of the abusive situation, it wasn't over, but now I could begin to believe in more positive things. With each positive thought, I had to play a long tennis volley with my subconscious thoughts. How can you ever get a place of your own without money, and that huge IRS cloud? First things first, I had an income, something a lot of people didn't, a job. But I was on the edge of losing that because of my weight. So add one more thing to worry about, so the tennis volley continues. Positive thought, negative thought, positive thought, negative thought, Positive thought wins. Then that volley would slow down to maybe only 3 times a day. But it slowed down, and as it did I could see things improving.
So has that volley began? Keep it going with the positive, every time return the negative ball with a positive thought till the positive thought wins.
Looking at weight loss success is absolutely no different. If you see yourself as a success, then you will unfold that success. But if you only see weight loss as a struggle, then that is what you will continue to create, negative after negative. Volley that negative thought always with a thought that you can be a weight loss success. You will prevail. Start and don't stop.
Until I post again, start with creating that success movie in your mind & believe it. My story is not finished, it only gets better!
"When your committed, nothing gets in your way!"
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